“The list tells you who you are attracted to. The conversation tells you who you can live with. Start having the conversation earlier.”
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FRANKLYcontents · 15 chapters
What’s inside
Fifteen chapters. One subject. No wasted pages.
01What You Are Actually Looking For.p. 3
02What Chemistry Is. And What It Isn't.p. 8
03The Questions Nobody Asks.p. 13
04Kindness Is Not a Personality Trait. It Is a Standard.p. 18
05What You Are Bringing.p. 23
06p. 28
07p. 33
08p. 38
09p. 43
10p. 47
11p. 51
12p. 55
13p. 59
14p. 63
15p. 67
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The hard truth · chapter 1
Most people have a list. Tall or not tall. Career-driven or creative. Funny, generous, good-looking. The list is not wrong. The list is not the point. The list tells you what you find appealing. It does not tell you what you need to build a life with. These are entirely different things, and the confusion between them is responsible for a significant portion of the relationships that end badly.
“The list tells you who you are attracted to. The conversation tells you who you can live with. Start having the conversation earlier.”
— chapter 1, actual size
the book is 70 pages. this is one of them.
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FRANKLYwhat changes · one hour later
The outcome
One hour. Here’s what’s different after.
You'll stop filtering for attraction and start filtering for compatibility.These overlap sometimes. They are not the same thing, and confusing them is expensive.
You'll know the questions nobody asks early enough — and what the answers actually reveal.Chapter three alone is worth the hour.
You'll understand what you've been choosing and why — the pattern, laid out plainly, without judgment.Knowing the pattern doesn't trap you in it. It releases you from it.
You'll know what the difficult moments reveal about a person that the easy ones never show.That's the data. Frank shows you where to look for it.
You'll recognise the difference between “I have a feeling about this person” and “I am making a choice about this person.”Frank helps you make the choice deliberately.
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FRANKLYready when you are
You already know something is different about this one.frank helps you know why.
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